• Bands and musicians I’ve wanted to or still want to see play live

    I’ll sort the names in different catagories:

    “will never happen” (because they died or the band broke up/stopped touring or someone turned out to be a nazi piece of shit *cough* Kanye *cough* Morrissey *cough*. Bob Dylan is in that category because I don’t think I will ever be able to afford a ticket lol)
    “has sort of happened” (I’ve seen parts of a band play their music for example -> John Cale playing Velvet Underground songs live or because I have technically seen them at a festival but I was too tired to appreciate it or had to leave for another concert after two songs)
    “has happened”
    “should’ve happened” (because I had tickets but then couldn’t go for some reason or because they played at a festival I was at but I didn’t go to the concert)
    and “could still happen” (I have put some bands in there that don’t tour atm/have broken up but I, for some reason still have hope)

    Another disclaimer: I have seen way more concerts and I want to see way more artists than are on the list. These are only the ones that felt significant.
    Also some artists I wouldn’t wanna support these days because of things that have come out about them that weren’t known at the time I saw them live but the concerts were still great so it felt wrong to exclude them. (Die Antwoord and Amanda Palmer)

    *”Regina Spettro” was meant to be Regina Spektor. My computer autocorrected and I didn’t notice until it was too late

    Also I forgot to put Mazzy Star in the will never happen catagory. 🙁

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  • Ranking of the concerts I’ve seen at Primavera Sound ’25

    My ranking is on how much enjoyment I’ve gotten from watching the shows. The charli xcx show would’ve probably been in the Top 3 if the organisers had better crowd management so I didn’t get crushed and grabbed by strangers the whole time.
    Also I only saw parts of some shows because of schedule conflicts, so that also diminished some experiences (ANOHNI and Sabrina Carpenter).

    Also sorry for the relatively long absence. I was on holiday for a week and really stressed/burned out before and after.

    1. Kim Deal
    2. Chappell Roan
    3. Wet Leg
    4. LCD Soundsystem
    5. Fontaines D.C.
    6. beabadoobee
    7. Wolf Alice
    8. Kate Bollinger
    9. Beach House
    10. Charli xcx + Troye Sivan
    11. Sabrina Carpenter
    12. ANOHNI and the Johnsons
    13. FKA twigs
    14. HAIM
    15. Glass Beams
    16. IDLES
    17. Jamie xx (DJ set)

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  • My Top 10 Favorite 90s teen movies (fun)

    I have decided to make 2 separate lists for 90s teen movies, one fun and one serious, because I just love them all so much I couldn’t fit them into one.

    1. Rushmore (1998)
    2. 10 things I hate about you (1999)
    3. But I’m a Cheerleader (1999)
    4. Dazed and Confused (1993)
    5. The Doom Generation (1995)
    6. Election (1999)
    7. Drop Dead Gorgeous (1999)
    8. She’s all that (1999)
    9. Buffy the Vampire Slayer (1992)
    10. Jawbreaker (1999)

    Honorable Mentions: Clueless (1995), Can’t Hardly Wait (1998), Dick (1999), The Opposite of Sex (1998), American Pie (1999)

    (Most of the honorable mentions are guilty pleasures because of how problematic and/or stupid they are, so please don’t judge me too harshly for how much I love them)

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  • Fictional characters and famous(-ish) people somebody once told me I remind them of

    • Rogue from X-Men
      I haven’t seen any X-Men movie since I was a teenager so I don’t remember that well how Rogue’s character is and the details of her story and accordingly cannot tell how accurate the comparison was/is. The guy who told me I remind him of her was some older dude who was pretty creepy towards me (I was 15-16), so maybe the extend of the similarity were my tits or something. Idk
      Is somebody who knows me an expert and can tell me wether or not I actually have traits in common with Rogue?
    • Hannah from Girls
      This one actually came from my best friend when I was 18 and I am insulted by it to this day. I don’t really like “Girls”. I’ve seen a couple of seasons because I was intrigued by the fact that the main character isn’t thin (that was such a rarety in media when I was a kid/teenager that that alone made it worth watching), but I always thought the titular girls were mostly unlikeable. The main thing I remember about Hannah is how spoiled and not down to earth she was.
      I kind of hope that I reminded my friend of her only because I had a similar body type.
    • Willow from Buffy
      This one came from one of my best friends a couple of years ago and I still feel very honoured by it.
      I loooove Willow! She’s nerdy, awkward, talkative and overly excited a lot and I can totally see myself in her character.
      So thank you, friend. <3
    • Clementine from Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
      Multiple people have said that to me, but I’m honestly not sure if it isn’t just because I have been so obsessed with that movie for such a long time that I modelled my aesthetic after her when I was a teen (maybe a bit of my personality too😬). Anyway, I am fine with that comparison. With time, I kind of moved away from being obsessed with Clementine to being obsessed (and relating to) Mary Svevo. So I don’t identify with her as much as I used to, but I can definitely still see a lot of myself in her.
      Btw I have had one friend who explicitly told me I am nothing like her because she didn’t like her or the movie. We are not friends anymore.
    • Jennifer Lawrence
      So, this is the weirdest one in my opinion. Someone first told me I looked a bit like her when I was in my late teens and it was a guy who had a crush one me so I didn’t take it serious because I thought he probably just wanted to say something flattering. But then years later I got it again multiple times by a (straight) girlfriend of mine and I don’t think she had any agenda when saying it. I never got any other comparisons to celebrities. Maybe just a weird concidence.
      I still don’t see it at all. I am kind of flattered but also confused.
    • The girl on the cover of Elliott Smith’s first album “Roman Candle”
      Roman Candle was the first Elliott Smith album I ever got on vinyl and I’ve had the cover from it framed in my kitchen for many years. When my mother was at my place for a visit once she saw it and asked me if the picture in the frame was a photo of me, which confused me a lot because I for some reason always thought it was Elliott Smith on the cover and only realised it wasn’t when she asked me about it and then kept insisting that the person looks a lot like me.
      I kind of see it a bit.

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  • My Top 10 favorite types of Pasta

    Shoutout to Joël for giving me so many good new list ideas!

    1. Lasagne

    2. Fleckerl (I think Fleckerl are, on their own, terrible pasta but vegetarian Schinkenfleckerl is my favorite dish so I feel like I have to put them high for that)

    3. Ravioli

    4. Tortellini

    5. Orzo

    6. Penne

    7. Spaghetti

    8. Maccheroni

    9. Fusilli

    10.Gnocchi


    Honorable Mentions: Cannelloni, Farfalle, Fettuccine, Orecchiette, Tagliatelle, Penis shaped (Tbh I’ve never had any but I just think it’s funny that it’s a thing)

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  • Songs about being a specific age

    Listed chronologically by the age mentioned in the song

    I’ve always looked up songs that mention the age I’m turning before my birthday every year since I was a teenager. When I turned 25 I even made a whole mix dedicated to only songs mentioning being 25 or songs that came out in the year I was born. For some reason there are a lot of good songs mentioning being 25. It’s been downhill since then unfortunately. 🙁

    Also: There are a lot of songs out there mentioning ages, so the list only contains the ones that mean something to me.
    But if you think of one that you think is good please go ahead and tell me. Maybe I forgot or just don’t know about some good ones.
    (I didn’t forget about the Beatles)

    • Kimya Dawson – All I could do: ages 12 and 15

    “And I thought back to when I was 15

    How I was squeaky clean and I wanted to die
    I was feeding the homeless while combating loneliness

    All I could do was keep living a lie

    Then I think back to that 12 year old poet
    How she didn’t know it was what she would be

    All she could do was hide under her bed

    Scared to death that somebody might read her diary”

    • The Smiths – Half a Person: age 16

    “Sixteen, clumsy and shy
    That’s the story of my life”

    • Janis Ian – At Seventeen: age 17

    “I learned the truth at seventeen

    That love was meant for beauty queens

    And high school girls with clear-skinned smiles

    who married young and then retired”

    (fun fact: Tina Fey apparently loves this song. I get it btw, I do too. Not only is it featured in an episode of 30 rock where Liz Lemon sings it at karaoke. One of the main characters in Mean Girls was also named after Janis Ian, who’s mainly known for this one song)

    • The Smiths – Never Had No One Ever: age 20

    “I had a really bad dream

    It lasted 20 years, 7 months and 27 days”

    • Garbage – Cherry Lips (Go Baby Go!): age 21

    “She gave you everything she had
    But she was young and dumb

    She’d just turned twenty-one”

    • Daniel Johnston – I Am a Baby (In My Universe): age 22

    “I am a baby in my universe

    I’ll live forever
    Ooh, I’m only twenty-two

    I’ll live forever”

    • Mitski – First Love/Late Spring: age 25

    “And I was so young when I behaved twenty-five
    Yet now, I find I’ve grown into a tall child”

    • 4 Non Blondes – What’s Up?: age 25

    “25 years and my life is still

    tryin’ to get up that great big hill of hope

    for a destination”

    • Kanye West – We don’t care: age 25/26(?)

    “We wasn’t supposed to make it past twenty-five

    Joke’s on you, we still alive”

    • SZA – 20 something: age 20s

    “How could it be? Twenty-something

    All alone, still not a thing in my name

    Ain’t got nothing, runnin’ from love, only know fear

    That’s me, Ms. Twenty-Something”

    • Soko – Happy Hippie Birthday: ages 22 and 35

    “Thirty-five candles blown away

    That I picture in my head
    Thirty-five years old
    and I’m twenty-two
    and I remember how you used to say

    That I was young, but you didn’t care at all”

    • Blumentopf – Manfred Mustermann: ages 46 and (close to) 60

    “Jetzt ist mein Leben doch schon aus mit 46

    Ist doch kein Wunder dass man dauernd deprimiert ist”

    “Auch wenn ich bald 60 bin fĂŒhl ich mich immer noch jung”

    (Fun fact: when my sister was a teenager she made our mom a mix CD for her 46th birthday and put that song on it just because of that one line. I still think that’s hilarious.)

    Honorable Mention: “Anthems for a Seventeen Year-Old Girl” by Broken Social Scene
    Great song, but the age doesn’t get mentioned once in the song besides in the title. So it felt to me like it doesn’t quite count.

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  • ANNA’S HOT TAKES: Overrated* movies I hate with a passion

    *in my opinion
    (warning: my opinions get quite heated)

    • The Fifth Element ” (1997)– sexist/misogynistic af and also a blatant fantasy about how hot it would be if a woman didn’t know anything about the world and basically had the mind of a baby (and the body of a total babe, am I right, fellas?), so she’s completely depended on you and thinks you’re a god despite you being completely mediocre.
    • “The Worst Person in the World”(2021) – I don’t have anything smart to say about this. I just hated it. But to sum it up here’s a quote from Letterboxd user “NoCopZone” I strongly agree with: “This is an edgelord anti-feminist manic pixie dream girl wank fest and it’s fucking dull as hell.”
    • “Closer” (2004) – sooo male gaze-y and just plain stupid. Yes, I love Natalie Portman and she looks very hot as a stripper with a pink wig. We’ve all seen the tumblr posts about that. But her character (and all the other ones too btw) sucks so much and is so toxic and unlikeable. Terrible movie.
    • “Call me by your Name” (2017) – How bout we don’t romanticise fucking children? Wouldn’t that be a great idea? The fact that this movie gets put on a pedestal so much as THE queer “romance” đŸ„Ž of the last decade is so fucked up to me. Also I just don’t think it’s that good of a movie, even if you ignore all the unchecked creepiness and grooming.
    • “Licorice Pizza” (2021) – Another movie about a “love story” between a child and an adult. Biggest letdown from PTA.
      Just check out the review I wrote. It says it all: https://letterboxd.com/treelanguage/film/licorice-pizza/
    • “Anora” (2024) – I have also already wrote a lengthy review on my feelings on this movie. But I’d also like to add that there are allegations from a woman (who actually is a sex worker) that Sean Baker stole the story and concept of Anora from her.
      https://letterboxd.com/treelanguage/film/anora/1/
    • “Lost Highway” (1997) – I have a long standing love-hate relationship with David Lynch’s filmography and movies like this are the reason. This feels like a 2 hour+ long perfume commercial. Nothing makes sense, it’s longwinded and boring af and I don’t remember any film I’ve seen feeling as never-ending as this one. That’s my main criticism so this is probably the one movie on this list where I’m more open to it being good actually and me just being too ADHD to appreciate it.
    • “The Whale” (2022) – This is the worst, fatphobic piece of trash I have ever seen. Nothing more to say about that.
      I’m starting to think Aronofsky is only good when he can steal all his best “ideas” from Satoshi Kon (just like many other western directors *cough* Inception *cough*)
      Love Brendan Fraser and Hong Chau but not even they could save this. It’s irredeemable.
    • “Dancer in the Dark” (2000) – I also have a love-hate relationship with Lars von Trier. I love many of his movies, but I think he’s a disgusting vile human being (look up allegations if you don’t know) and I find his obsession with women being abused and tortured really off-putting. It would be one thing if that’s just a theme he wants to explore, but considering how he treated his actresses (especially Björk during the making of this movie) it seems more like his lifestyle. This movie feels like watching torture porn. There is no enjoyment possible (besides Björk’s musical numbers but that’s all her). It’s uncomfortable to the point where it feels unbearable and (unlike other Lars von Trier movies) it doesn’t have anything profound to say in my opinion. To me it feels like he just made this to jerk off to it.
    • “Porco Rosso” (1992) – I have seen (and love) most Miyazaki movies but I just find this one obnoxious. I get that flying/pilots/flying machines are basically his special interest, but I don’t share his enthusiasm unfortunately. And the middle-aged sexist womanising protagonist doesn’t help. I haven’t seen this in a while, so maybe I’d like it more these days, but I honestly doubt it.
    • “The Perks of being a Wallflower” (2012) – I don’t really know how and why I hate this movie, because I love the book and it meant so much to me (I’ve read it multiple times) and the writer of the book adapted it for the movie. But it just doesn’t translate to me. Maybe this story just isn’t meant for film. It doesn’t feel any close to as profound as it did in the book. The movie just feels hollow and pretentious to me.
    • “Her” (2013) – I tried rewatching this recently when I felt heartbroken and just wanted to feel sorry for myself but even with that attitude I couldn’t go through it again. To me the personal history that’s behind this movie is very important. That being that the guy who made this, Spike Jonze was married to one of my favorite filmmakers of all time Sofia Coppola and that she (10 years before this came out) made an amazing movie “Lost in Translation” that worked through her feelings after the break-up. It has an obvious self insert character and a husband character that’s very obviously (iyk) based on Spike Jonze, who’s a bit of an asshole. So 10 years after LIT, Spike Jonze decides to do basically the same: a movie about a sad man who just went through a divorce and needs to find himself. Only that in his version of the story he is the ultimate victim, all women (including his ex-wife) are mean and have ridiculous standards for men (they want someone to care about them as whole people and don’t just fuck them and leave them shortly after) and the only woman who really gets him is his AI girlfriend, created just for him, who for some reason thinks he’s the funniest, cutest, smartest, most irresistible man on the planet who needs protection from the cruel cruel world and all those other shitty women who don’t understand how sweet and fragile this poor baby boy is. Oh, and she’s very sexy and sensual, but in a very coy way (not vulgar and needy like those trashy gals). It’s peak soft boi cinema, even worse than Buffalo ’66, because Vincent Gallo at least has the self-awareness to know that his protagonist is fucked-up and an asshole.
    • “Inception” (2010) – This fucking hack Christopher Nolan just stole “Paprika”, a cinematic masterpiece by one of my favorite directors, Satoshi Kon and remade a worse version of it and then continued to deny that he stole it. Fuck this guy!
      He wishes he were half as talented as Satoshi Kon.
      I agree that it is an interesting movie, but that’s because it took most of its interesting ideas from Paprika. He could’ve just asked to remake it and payed for the rights like a decent person. It probably wouldn’t be on this list then.

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  • My Top 10 favorite filmmakers

    1. Charlie Kaufman – Favs: “Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind” (2004), “Adaptation.” (2002), “Being John Malkovich” (1999), “Synecdoche, New York” (2008)
    2. Miranda July – Favs: “Me and You and Everyone We Know” (2005) and “Kajillionaire” (2020)
    3. Paul Thomas Anderson – Favs: “Magnolia” (1999), “Punch Drunk Love” (2002), “Boogie Nights” (1997), “There Will Be Blood” (2007)
    4. Sofia Coppola – Favs: “The Virgin Suicides” (1999), “Lost in Translation” (2003), “Priscilla” (2023)
    5. Wes Anderson – Favs: “The Royal Tenenbaums” (2001), “Rushmore” (1998), “Moonrise Kingdom” (2012)
    6. Wong Kar-Wai – Favs: “Chungking Express” (1994), “Fallen Angels” (1995), “Happy Together” (1997)
    7. Michel Gondry – Favs: “Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind” (2004) and “Science of Sleep” (2006)
    8. Todd Solondz – Favs: “Welcome to the Dollhouse” (1995), “Happiness”(1998), “Storytelling” (2001)
    9. Yorgos Lanthimos – Favs: “The Favorite” (2018), “Poor Things” (2023), The Lobster” (2015)
    10. Richard Linklater – Favs: “Before”-Trilogy (1995, 2004, 2013), “Waking Life” (2001), “Dazed and Confused” (1993)

    Honorable Mentions: Park chan wook – Favs: “Oldboy” (2003), “Lady Vengeance” (2005), “I’m a Cyborg, But That’s ok” (2006)

    Mike Mills – Favs: “20th Century Women” (2016) and “C’mon C’mon” (2021)

    Greta Gerwig – Favs: “Ladybird”(2017), “Frances Ha” (2012), “Mistress America” (2015)

    Jim Jarmusch – Favs: “Night on Earth” (1990) and “Only Lovers Left Alive” (2013)

    Gregg Araki – Favs: The Teen Apocalypse Trilogy (1993, 1995, 1997), “Mysterious Skin” (2004), “Smiley Face” (2007)

    Terry Zwigoff – Favs: “Ghost World” (2001), “Crumb” (1994), “Art School Confidential” (2006)

    Jordan Peele – Favs: “Get Out” (2017) and “Us” (2019)

    Coen Brothers- Favs: “The Big Lebowski” (1998), “Fargo” (1996), “Blood Simple” (1984)

    Satoshi Kon – Favs: “Tokyo Godfathers” (2003), “Perfect Blue” (1997), “Paranoia Agent” (Miniseries, 2004)

    Diablo Cody – Favs: “Juno” (2007), “Young Adult” (2011), “Tully” (2018)

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  • My Top 10 favorite forms of fries

    Another request/idea from a friend and a really good one I think.

    1. Public pool or ice rank fries – I have no idea what the reason or secret is but the fries you can get at small kiosks at pools or ice ranks are out of this world. They taste like childhood (in a good way).
    2. Curly Fries
    3. Sweet Potato Fries
    4. Waffle-cut Fries
    5. Croquettes/tater tots
    6. Fresh(!) McDonalds Fries
    7. Cheese Fries
    8. Tornado Fries
    9. Potato Wedges
    10. Potato smiles

    Honorable Mentions: flemish fries, steak fries, crinkle cut fries and Patatas Bravas.

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  • My Top 10 favorite things to watch when you feel like shit and like no one likes you and you wanna wallow in that feeling

    1. All of Fleabag Season 2, most importantly the last episode of the season (most most importantly the wedding “love is awful” monologue + “It’ll pass”!!)
    2. “Me and you and everyone we know” (2005) – That one’s probably the least depressing. I use it like a tool to make the transition from wallowing to feeling like I’m gonna be okay.
    3. Bojack Horseman – One or all of the episodes: “Downer Ending”, “Stupid piece of shit” (pool scene!!!) or “Funeral”
    4. Mitski music videos, especially the ones for “Your best American Girl” and “Nobody”
    5. “Eternal Sunshine of the spotless mind” (2004) – I usually just rewatch my favorite scenes: atm it’s the Bird scene and the one where baby Joel is bathing in the sink, when I was younger I would rewatch the “Am I ugly?” scene religiously.
    6. “Magnolia” (1999) – again, I usually just rewatch my favs: all the Donnie Smith scenes + the restaurant scene between Claudia and Jim + the ending)
    7. The last two songs from Bo Burnham’s “Make Happy” special – “Kanye rant” and “Are you happy?”
    8. Euphoria -“Trouble Don’t Last Always” (the special episode focused on Rue where she meets her sponsor and the whole episode is just them having a conversation. Great episode to watch as a stand alone piece, even if you haven’t seen the rest of the show.)
    9. “Synecdoche, New York” (2008) – specifically the Funeral monologue and the songs from the movie: “Little Person” and “Song for Caden” by Jon Brion. Especially the ladder always hits so hard. It captures a distinct sadness I feel a lot and have felt for most of my life, better than almost anything else.
    10. All the therapy scenes from “Good Will Hunting” (1997) where Robin Williams is giving Will harsh pep talks. My favorite is the one where he talks about people not being perfect, where he improvised the line about his wife farting in her sleep. One of my all time favorite scenes in any movie.

    Honorable Mentions:

    – The music video by Soko for the song “Sweet sound of Ignorance” one of my favorite songs of all time and the video is also a vibe.

    – Science of Sleep (2006) – the ending scene is my favorite

    – “Adaptation.” (2003) – best movie to watch when you’re feeling self loathing and insecure. Also one of the best movies of all time in general in my opinion.


    – The recording of the last concert Elliott smith ever played (19/03/03), specifically his acoustic cover of Heatmiser’s (his own band’s) “Something to lose” he played during that show


    – From an episode of “The Jon Brion Show” from 2000 where Elliott Smith was on, the videos of when they play “Trouble” and “Happiness”.

    – Videos of Fiona Apple singing “Paper Bag” and “Fast as you can” during a live show at Club Largo 20-25 years ago. I love both songs in general, but the live versions from that show specifically are some of my favorite stuff on all of YouTube. I think I have watched both those videos at least 50 times each. 
    There’s also a live version of “I know” at Largo from the same era that’s soooo good. I just rediscovered it again after writing this list.

    – Trisha Paytas – “I’m a chicken nugget” YouTube video

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